Every Girl Needs a Gay Best Friend. So Imagine Their Fury When He Finally Came Out – as STRAIGHT!

He’s always preferred female friends but he may have just lost some due to his evasiveness around his sexuality. One friend had assumed he was gay and she would never have told him what she told him if she knew the truth! Should he have come out of the straight closet sooner or was she being unreasonable?

A New Job, New Friends

Image Credit: Shutterstock / GaudiLab

The Original Poster (OP) is a 33-year-old who started a new job six weeks ago, and throughout that time, he made some close connections with other trainees. 

Fondness

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Andrii Iemelianenko

OP particularly grew to like Meg, aged 33, and Yvette, aged 26.

He Enjoys Friendships With Women

Image Credit: Shutterstock / fizkes

OP says he always found it easy to make friends with women as they were incredibly engaging and inquisitive people.

He Didn’t Talk With Them About His Love Life

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Damir Khabirov

Yvette is heterosexual, and Meg is a married lesbian. They both talked about their dating and relationship experiences, but OP did not share his relationships.

No Big Secret

Image Credit: Shutterstock / G-Stock Studio

OP says he is not holding a big secret and that his relationships were just normal things that were not exciting for a conversation.

Non-Gendered Language

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Krakenimages.com

He occasionally mentions his previous relationships, but he always referred to them as “my ex.”

He did not specify the gender of his ex-partners, as it seemed unnecessary to do so.

He’s Not Talking About His Sexuality

Image Credit: Shutterstock / pathdoc

Plus, OP says he never once mentioned his sexual orientation.

Who’s Hot, Who’s Not?

Image Credit: Shutterstock / William Perugini

OP shared an instance where Yvette asked him to comment on people he thought were attractive at the workplace, but OP said he didn’t feel comfortable having that conversation in the workplace.

A Great Date

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Cookie Studio

OP recently went on a date, and he had a great time.

He Was Telling Meg About the Encounter

Image Credit: Shutterstock / fizkes

The situation took an unexpected turn when OP casually mentioned his successful date to Meg.

Yvette happened to be present; she wasn’t participating in the conversation because she was preoccupied with her phone.

What’s the Problem?

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Kues

The following day, Yvette distanced herself from OP, prompting Meg to express concern.

Meg came over to see if everything was okay and told OP to go talk to Yvette when she returned.

If She Knew He Was Straight Things Would Be Different

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Krakenimages.com

Yvette said she was feeling uneasy, seeing OP’s sexuality omission as a breach of trust.

She believed that the personal information she shared may not have been disclosed had she known that OP was straight.

She Felt Preyed Upon

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Krakenimages.com

Yvette used words like “preying” and “feeling preyed upon,” indicating her discomfort with the situation.

Closed-Minded

not giving
Image Credit: Shutterstock / Mix and Match Studio

OP quickly withdrew and explained to her, but she didn’t listen.

Speaking With HR

Image Credit: Shutterstock / rawf8

Then OP sent HR an email to explain himself to avoid any work problems.

She Agreed He’d Been Secretive

Image Credit: Shutterstock / anythings

When discussing the matter with Meg, it became clear that she did not assume OP was gay but instead characterized his behavior as evasive.

Awful That She Thinks He’s A Bad Guy

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Rohit-Tripathi

OP says he is not worried about any office drama because Yvette hasn’t mentioned anything to anyone else, but he still feels bad. 

He says Yvette is a good person, and he detests the notion that he was being predatory in her eyes.

Was He Doing Anything Wrong?

Image Credit: Shutterstock / mangpor2004

He asked Reddit whether he was in the wrong in the situation, and several Redditors sided with OP, saying he was not wrong.

It’s None of Their Business

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Cookie Studio

One Reddit user wrote, “You don’t have to disclose who you date, love, or [sleep with]. What difference does it make if you were gay for Yvette to confide in you? Unless there’s a bunch here, you’re not telling me you’re not in the wrong. If you are crushing on Yvette, there might be a problem.”

There’s No Evidence He’s a Threat

Image Credit: Shutterstock / F8 studio

Another Redditor commented, “Let’s say someone considers a gay person breaching their trust for not telling them they’re gay. Now if we swap it around, we have this scenario you described, and it’s just as horrible as it is if the roles were reversed.

It’s a personal thing that you shouldn’t have to point out unless you feel you must. The accusations of you being predatory are also completely insane and have no evidence whatsoever.”

Sugar Daddy Transforms This Girl’s Life by Paying off Her Debt, but Was This All Too Good to Be True?

Image Credit: Shutterstock / yamel photography

Ever wondered what happens when you reply to scammers and weird Instagram DMs? This woman finds out when she doesn’t ignore a strange offer from a genuine-seeming guy…but soon pays the price of being in his debt! Sugar Daddy Transforms This Girl’s Life by Paying off Her Debt, but Was This All Too Good to Be True?

You Reap What You Sow: Their Children Left Homeless While Their Aunt Sits In Her Large Spacious House! Should She Help?

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Zigres

Never mix family and money! This successful young woman is adamant she doesn’t want the burden of her struggling siblings and their kids. Even if it means they end up on the streets! You Reap What You Sow: Their Children Left Homeless While Their Aunt Sits In Her Large Spacious House! Should She Help?

Revenge: After He Betrayed Her, She Waited Until the Kids Were Grown to Rock Her Husband’s World!

Image Credit: Shutterstock / pathdoc

This tale of betrayal and revenge shows that sometimes playing the long game is the best way to hit someone where it hurts. She discovered the ultimate betrayal and waited a decade to show him he should never have messed with her! Revenge: After He Betrayed Her, She Waited Until the Kids Were Grown to Rock Her Husband’s World! See How

Family Secrets: She Found Out Her Parents Are Brother and Sister! But Why Is SHE Being Ostracized by the Family?

Image Credit: Shutterstock / Nikodash

Her parents weren’t who they said they were and the truth was far more shocking than she could ever imagine! Family Secrets: She Found Out Her Parents Are Brother and Sister! But Why Is SHE Being Ostracized by the Family?

Mother-In-Law Is About to Have Plans for a Family Vacation Shattered! It’s Time She Quit the Mom-Shaming and Outdated Advice!

Image Credit: Shutterstock / KieferPix

When they thought this new mom was sleeping, her mother-in-law and relative began criticizing her parenting. She can’t unhear that judgment and doesn’t want to join them on a family trip. Should she go? Mother-In-Law Is About to Have Plans for a Family Vacation Shattered. It’s Time She Quit the Mom-Shaming and Outdated Advice!

The post Every Girl Needs a Gay Best Friend. So Imagine Their Fury When He Finally Came Out – as STRAIGHT! first appeared on Wealthy Living.

Featured Image Credit: Shutterstock / Vikafoto33. The people shown in the images are for illustrative purposes only, not the actual people featured in the story.

This post is based on Reddit but the names have been changed.

+ posts